“If not you, then who? If not now, when?”
HillelFirst Century Jewish Scholar
“If not me, who? If not now, when?
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“When we accept and embrace our imperfections without shame, they become sources of strength and power.”
“If you want to be free from all that binds you, accountability is the only path that leads to true freedom.”
“Do not be discouraged during difficult times. Enduring and overcoming hardships provides us with valuable insight. We emerge stronger and wiser with a clear vision of our purpose.”
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A New Approach
When we accept and embrace our imperfections without shame, they become sources of strength and power.
At morethan1victim, our mission is to end domestic violence by introducing a proactive approach to address the global social crisis we face. To date, all implemented measures have been reactive and only serve as damage control, failing to produce positive results. We have ignored the problem’s root cause. It is a fact and a costly mistake not to recognize that everyone in the household is a victim who needs healing because we are now dealing with a societal pandemic. We were already victims of circumstances connected to the environments from our childhood before we became a statistic of domestic violence.
For this reason, our top priority is to highlight the importance of providing safe home environments for our children, who are the most vulnerable victims. We must begin by removing the labels of “victim” and “abuser” and support all affected equally; this is the solution. We need to seize the opportunity to act as agents of change. Our proactive strategy focuses on achieving this objective.
The whole truth
about domestic violence
What is a Victim Of Circumstance?
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Domestic Violence: The oldest pandemic
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The 5 Emotions Of Domestic Violence
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The Game Of Pretending
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Women Are NOT the Only Victims
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The Impact Of Domestic Violence On Our Children
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1 in 15
children
are exposed90% are eyewitness to violenceNearly 20
people
per minuteare physically abused by an intimate partner65% of all
Murder-suicides
involvean Intimate partner; 96% of the victims of these crimes are female
“The only way to avoid living with regret is to stop waiting for the perfect timing. There is no such thing. Instead, it is about recognizing the opportunity when it presents itself and having the courage to act while we still can. This way, we can avoid the dreaded but predictable state of regret.”
“Taking responsibility for our actions enables us to overcome obstacles that hinder us from reaching our maximum potential, and we can now live purposeful lives.”
“Life is not about being perfect in the absence of making mistakes. No matter how hard we try, we will never reach a state of perfection. God does not expect us to be flawless because only He is perfect. Lives most profound lessons only surface from our mistakes because we learn to make the necessary adjustments and begin living a healthier version of our lives. So, stop seeking the unattainable destination of perfection and start living life to the fullest!”

“Our lives are like a book, where the characters and experiences in each chapter shape the outcome of our story. Often, we have little control over these events. When we turn the page and begin writing a new chapter, we have two options: to use the lessons we have learned to propel us forward or use them as excuses to hold us back. We have the power to change the direction of our story and shape its narrative. I, for one, chose not to allow my past to define me. Instead, I took control and used my past experiences to enrich the content of my remaining chapters and redefine how my story ends.”
Rosa Diaz
Founder of morethan1victim
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Remember…
I AM
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Are you struggling with the weight of negative emotions like fear, anger, guilt, shame, or regret? Remember… I AM With You by Rosa Díaz is a beacon of hope, guiding you on a transformative journey towards healing, self-discovery, and embracing the unconditional love of God.
In this inspiring book, Díaz shares a powerful message: you are not alone. God is your constant companion, seeing you for who you truly are beyond your flaws and scars. Through seven powerful phrases, she reassures readers of God’s unwavering presence and invites you to connect deeply with the Almighty. This book is more than just words on a page; it’s a journey of spiritual awakening and personal growth.
Remember… I AM With You stands as a testament to the courage within you, waiting to be discovered and unleashed. As you turn each page, you’ll experience a shedding of past burdens and an awakening to newfound strength and purpose. It’s a call to action, urging you to step into the light of God’s love, to transform your life from the inside out.
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The stories we write behind closed doors differ from those we share publicly; this is true for all of us but more so for victims of abuse who live in unhealthy and dangerous environments. After healing me from a harmful and destructive lifestyle, God called me to speak out on this highly uncomfortable topic. He has entrusted me with the task of sharing my story in a distinct and unprecedented way. It is a never-before-narrated version; you can say it is a behind-the-scenes version of domestic violence. And that is not all; God is in the midst of my story. I am confident He enlightened me with the solution because He has a view into our lives and homes from every possible angle and knows all the characters. God holds the key to opening the doors of the self-inflicted prison sentences our lives have become. I must disclose that although His way is undoubtedly the answer, it is highly uncomfortable because we must practice complete transparency and accountability. As most of us know, it is improbable for us to use these practices. However, they are the key we must use to set ourselves free. Fear and shame at first were holding me back. Then God reminded me that you and I have more in common than I know because we all have more than one version of our stories, but we opt to share the one with the slightest shame. We should never be ashamed to admit our need for healing. On the contrary, accountability will set you free and empower you to live the life God intended for you.

